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Divorce sucks. Co-parenting doesn't have to.

Vent privately.
Send calmly.

Type what you actually want to say at 9:47 — about the pickup, the money, the holidays, any of it. That draft is never sent to them and never appears in a record you export — what goes out is the calm version you approved. The calendar, the expenses and the record live in the same calm place, and every certified export carries a code anyone can check.

Set up your side tonight — calendar, documents, your record. Messaging switches on the moment they accept your invite. Cancel anytime · 30-day refund.

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Alex
Co-parent · Civly

Type the reply you want to send.

This is the real Civly Rewrite, running live — type anything and it reads your whole message. Drafts you try here aren't saved.

The whole system

The rewrite is the door. The system is the house.

Tonight's fight is already on your phone — and so is next week's: the message, the calendar, the receipt, the order. Civly puts all of it in one calm place, with AI in every room: photograph your court order and the calendar builds itself, snap a receipt and the split computes itself, dictate a message angry and it arrives calm. The old apps were built to document your conflict. Civly was built in 2026 to give you the evening back.

Civly messages thread with a calm message labeled Civly Rewrite
The rewrite, in a real thread
Civly Companion screen flagging today's practice and message tension
Your Companion, watching the week
Civly add-expense screen scanning a receipt photo or PDF
Snap a receipt — details extract themselves

Real screens, not mockups — see every one →

Why Civly exists

The receipt. The late pickup. The calendar nobody agrees on. The order you have to find at 10 p.m. Each one is a chance to fight.

You are not fighting because you are a bad parent. You are fighting because every ordinary Tuesday now requires a negotiation with someone you no longer trust. Civly puts the message, the receipt and the calendar in one place, so an ordinary Tuesday has facts to point to instead of a fight to start. Nobody plans to become the person who sends that text at 9:47. Most of us have.

When the text is the fight

How the messages get easy

The rewrite is one job. When you have to send it, Civly turns it into a calm message: Brief, Informative, Friendly, Firm.

One message, four jobs
Pickup is at 5:00 this Friday per our schedule.Brief
Emma's inhaler is in the front pocket of her backpack.Informative
Hope you two have a great weekend.Friendly
Please confirm pickup by Thursday.Firm
B

Brief

Four sentences, not four paragraphs. Short messages give conflict nowhere to grow.

I

Informative

Dates, times, logistics, facts. No blame, no history lessons, no mind-reading. Information moves the week forward.

F

Friendly

One civil line changes how the whole message reads. Courtesy costs nothing.

F

Firm

A clear request with a clear deadline, and a clean ending that does not invite another round. Calm is not the same as soft.

Where the fights start

Messages. Schedules. Money.
The exchanges that create conflict. Handled.

Civly Rewrite

Unlimited rewrites, every plan. Type it raw; send it right.

"This is SO typical of you…"Draft
"Pickup was 5:40 today — please text if late."Sent ✓
"I've logged my half in Expenses."Sent ✓

Shared Calendar

Parenting time, swaps and school events. Yours from day one; one source of truth for both houses the day they join.

Mon–WedWith Mom · soccer Tue 5:30
Thu–SunWith Dad · dentist Fri 10:00
SwapApr 4–6 → Apr 11–13Pending

Expense Tracking

Receipts attached, balances clear. The number and the photo in the same place, so at least the facts aren't in dispute.

Soccer reg.$120 · 50/50Settled
Dentist copay$45 · 50/50Pending
Book fair$28 · 50/50Settled

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When it matters

We're new. So we built
the record you don't have to trust us about

Timestamped. Organized. Exportable when your attorney asks. A dated chronology of messages, the calendar, and expenses — not reconstructed later. Civly does not decide what a court admits.

Every certified export carries a SHA-256 hash and a code printed on the document. Anyone — your attorney, theirs, a mediator — can check it at civly.com/verify. We launched in 2026, so we built the part that does not ask you to trust us.

Worth knowing: a Civly record shows the calm version you sent, not the draft you typed. That is the point — and you approve every word that lands in it.

  • Timestamped message history, all in one place
  • Export your conversations for counsel in minutes
  • You review every rewrite before it sends. You stay the author

Civly is not a law firm and does not provide legal advice. Civly launched in 2026 and is not in many court orders yet. If your order already names a platform, use that one and ask your attorney before switching.

Civly · Conversation record
Exported for counsel · 2 pages · Mar 18, 2026
MAR 14 · 5:42 PM · K. → A. · DELIVERED

Confirming I'll handle school pickup Thursday while you're traveling. Emma's dentist form is signed and in her backpack.

MAR 15 · 8:03 AM · K. → A. · DELIVERED

Received the $120 registration request for spring soccer. I've logged my half in Expenses — receipt attached.

MAR 16 · 6:10 PM · K. → A. · DELIVERED

I can swap the following weekend if that works. I'll update the calendar once you confirm.

Record
Do the math

The AI isn't the upsell. It's the point.

Competitors gate their tone tools behind premium tiers. Here's what a year of calm actually costs — with the tier named in every case.

$353
per year for AI tone tools on TalkingParents' Ultimate tier
$150
per year for OurFamilyWizard's cheapest plan with its Writing Assistant
$79
Civly. Every feature. Every plan. One price. No premium tier for the tools you actually use.

On a phone, swipe the table sideways to see every app.

CivlyOurFamilyWizardTalkingParentsAppClose
Yearly cost with AI tone tools*$79$149.99+~$353$83.88 prepaid
AI in the product✓ rewrite, every planWriting Assistant from $149.99/yrUltimate $32/mo onlyCo-Parent Assist™ on premium
Rewrites your message (not just a warning)SuggestionsFlags toneGuidance
Shared calendar & expenses✓ on paid plans
PlatformsWeb, iOS, AndroidiOS, Android, webiOS, Android, webiOS, Android, web

*Civly is not the cheapest sticker price here — TalkingParents Essentials is about $77/yr and AppClose is $71.88/yr on a two-year prepaid, both without writing help. Per parent, from published pricing as of 16 August 2026: OurFamilyWizard Essentials $149.99/yr (cheapest tier with Writing Assistant); TalkingParents Ultimate $32/mo, about $353/yr on annual billing (Shared Calendar and payments are on paid plans); AppClose premium $7.99/mo on web ($83.88/yr prepaid), with Co-Parent Assist™. Two Paths annual is $119 / $189; BestInterest Protect is $149.99/yr; Civil Communicator is $65/mo, $150/quarter or $395/yr, per person. See the full comparison.

Pricing

Divorce is expensive enough.

One plan. Every feature. AI included. Pick monthly or save with annual.

Monthly
$7.99/month

Flexible. Cancel anytime.

  • Civly Rewrite — unlimited
  • Shared custody calendar
  • Expense tracking
Choose monthly

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Questions

Fair questions, honest answers

Does my co-parent have to use Civly too?
Honest mechanics: your custody calendar, documents, journal and record are yours from day one — set up your whole side tonight. Messaging and expense-splitting switch on when they accept your invite, because Civly messages are real, timestamped deliveries between two accounts — not drafts to nobody. Try the rewrite right now in the preview above. Civly is priced per parent, so they pay their own $79 when they join.
What does a calm message actually mean?
Brief, Informative, Friendly, Firm — the BIFF method, from Bill Eddy at the High Conflict Institute. Nothing you would cringe at if it were read later. Civly is not a law firm and does not give legal advice. No message or export is guaranteed to be admitted in court. If a court has ordered a specific platform, use that platform.
Is the AI going to make me sound like a robot?
No. Civly keeps your meaning and your requests — it removes the heat, not your voice. And you can edit every rewrite before it sends. You're always the author.
Why is Civly so much cheaper than OurFamilyWizard?
Because we don't tier features. Competitors charge $150–$353 per year to unlock their tone tools; Civly includes AI rewriting in every plan at $79/year. See the full comparison.
What if inviting them isn't safe?
Then don't — and here's exactly what that means: with no invite sent, Civly is your custody calendar, documents, journal and record, for as long as you want, and there is no prompt that nags you to add them. Messaging and expense-splitting only exist between connected accounts. And if you are in immediate danger, an app is not the tool for that moment — the National Domestic Violence Hotline is 1-800-799-7233, or text START to 88788.

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You don't have to fix this tonight.
But the next one will have somewhere to go.

The message, the receipt, the calendar — one place, one price, no tier above it.

Start tonight — $79/year

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