Tonight's fight is already on your phone.

Co-parenting,
made simple.

The 9:47 text. The $120 receipt. Pickup at 5. One place for all of it — $79 for the year.

Start this week $79/year

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The week, in one place$79. Everything in.Both houses

Alex

Co-parent · this week

MonWith Mom

TuePickup 5:00 · per the order

WedSoccer 5:30

Thu–SunWith Dad

Soccer$120 · 50/50Logged

You · Sent · Tue 4:41 PM

I'll be at the curb at 5:00.

This week in Civly — pickup, money, the schedule, the order.

Where's the receipt?→Logged. Split 50/50.You never told me→It's on the calendarBe there at 5→Pickup is 5:00. Confirm by ThursdayAGAIN?!→per our scheduleI'm done.→here's what works for meread the order for once→our agreement splits this 50/50Where's the receipt?→Logged. Split 50/50.You never told me→It's on the calendarBe there at 5→Pickup is 5:00. Confirm by ThursdayAGAIN?!→per our scheduleI'm done.→here's what works for meread the order for once→our agreement splits this 50/50

Why Civly exists

The receipt. The late pickup. The calendar nobody agrees on. The order you have to find at 10 p.m. Each one is a chance to fight.

When the text is the fight

How the messages get easy

The rewrite is one job of the concierge, not the whole product. When you have to send it, Civly turns it into a calm, brief, factual message on the BIFF framework — Brief, Informative, Friendly, Firm.

One message, four jobs

Pickup is at 5:00 this Friday per our schedule.← Brief

Emma's inhaler is in the front pocket of her backpack.← Informative

Hope you two have a great weekend.← Friendly

Please confirm pickup by Thursday.← Firm

Brief

Four sentences, not four paragraphs. Short messages give conflict nowhere to grow — and judges, who read hundreds of pages of exhibits, notice restraint.

Informative

Dates, times, logistics, facts. No blame, no history lessons, no mind-reading. Information moves parenting forward; opinion restarts the war.

Friendly

One civil line changes how the whole message reads — to your co-parent, and to anyone who might read it later. Courtesy costs nothing and photographs well.

Firm

A clear request with a clear deadline, and a clean ending that doesn't invite another round. Calm is not the same as soft.

What the concierge handles

Messages. Schedules. Money.
The exchanges that create conflict. Handled.

AI Message Coach

Unlimited rewrites, every plan. Type it raw; send it right.

"This is SO typical of you…"Draft

"Pickup was 5:40 today — please text if late."Sent ✓

"I've logged my half in Expenses."Sent ✓

Shared Calendar

Parenting time, swaps and school events — one source of truth.

Mon–WedWith Mom · soccer Tue 5:30

Thu–SunWith Dad · dentist Fri 10:00

SwapApr 4–6 → Apr 11–13Pending

Expense Tracking

Receipts attached, balances clear, nothing left to argue about.

Soccer reg.$120 · 50/50Settled

Dentist copay$45 · 50/50Pending

Book fair$28 · 50/50Settled

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When it matters

A record you
can hand over

Timestamped. Organized. Exportable when your attorney asks. A dated chronology of messages, the calendar, and expenses — not reconstructed later. Civly does not decide what a court admits.

Timestamped message history, all in one place
Export your conversations for counsel in minutes
You review every rewrite before it sends. You stay the author

Civly is not a law firm and does not provide legal advice.

Civly · Conversation record
Exported for counsel · 2 pages · Mar 18, 2026

MAR 14 · 5:42 PM · K. → A. · DELIVERED

Confirming I'll handle school pickup Thursday while you're traveling. Emma's dentist form is signed and in her backpack.

MAR 15 · 8:03 AM · K. → A. · DELIVERED

Received the $120 registration request for spring soccer. I've logged my half in Expenses — receipt attached.

MAR 16 · 6:10 PM · K. → A. · DELIVERED

I can swap the following weekend if that works. I'll update the calendar once you confirm.

Record

Do the math

The AI isn't the upsell. It's the point.

Competitors gate their tone tools behind premium tiers — and don't put pricing on their homepage. Here's what a year of calm actually costs.

$384

per year for AI tone tools on TalkingParents' Ultimate tier

$150

per year for OurFamilyWizard's cheapest plan with its Writing Assistant

$79

Civly. Every feature. Every plan. One price. No premium tier for the tools you actually use.

	Civly	OurFamilyWizard	TalkingParents	AppClose	Clearly
Yearly cost with AI tone tools*	$79	$149.99+	~$384	~$96	$290
AI in the product	✓ rewrite, every plan	Writing Assistant from $149.99/yr	Ultimate $32/mo only	Co-Parent Assist™ on premium	✓ tone filter
Rewrites your message (not just a warning)	✓	Suggestions	Flags tone	Guidance	Filters; original kept
Shared calendar & expenses	✓	✓	✓ on paid plans	✓	✓
Platforms	Web	iOS, Android, web	iOS, Android, web	iOS, Android, web	iOS only

*Per parent, from published pricing as of 16 August 2026: OurFamilyWizard Essentials $149.99/yr (cheapest tier with Writing Assistant); TalkingParents Ultimate $32/mo (Shared Calendar and payments are on paid plans); AppClose premium $7.99/mo on web, with Co-Parent Assist™; Clearly $29.99/mo or $290/yr, iOS only. Two Paths annual is $119 / $189; BestInterest Protect is $149.99/yr; Civil Communicator does not publish a public dollar price. See the full comparison and Civly vs Clearly.

Pricing

Divorce is expensive enough.

One plan. Every feature. AI included. Pick monthly or save with annual.

Monthly

$7.99/month

Flexible. Cancel anytime.

AI message rewriting — unlimited
Shared custody calendar
Expense tracking

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Best value — save 18%

Annual

$79/year

About $6.58/month.

Everything in monthly
One payment, done for the year
Messages, calendar, and expenses included

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Questions

Fair questions, honest answers

Does my co-parent have to use Civly too?

Civly works best when both parents use it — shared calendar, expenses and messaging all live in one place. But the AI Message Coach helps from day one even if you're the only one trying: calmer messages tend to get calmer replies.

What does a calm message actually mean?

Brief, factual, civil, and firm — the BIFF standard. Nothing you would cringe at if it were read later. Civly is not a law firm and does not give legal advice. No message or export is guaranteed to be admitted in court. If a court has ordered a specific platform, use that platform.

Is the AI going to make me sound like a robot?

No. Civly keeps your meaning and your requests — it removes the heat, not your voice. And you can edit every rewrite before it sends. You're always the author.

Why is Civly so much cheaper than OurFamilyWizard?

Because we don't tier features. Competitors charge $150–$384 per year to unlock their tone tools; Civly includes AI rewriting in every plan at $79/year. See the full comparison.

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